What a person really expects from his life?? A good prosperous career, good wealthy job, good wife, luck, friends?? What?? Really what he wants from life?? These are not actual needs to live life. What he wants then?? If you show your emotions to someone they will call you competitive? For once u think about yourself they will take it as jealousy, Selfishness. Then what remain is blame game. There is no limit to it.
People need a small little bit of respect from their beloved once. Pat on back saying hey mate I am with you. That trust, confidence will do a world good to your so called life.